IMAGO & The 3 Stages of Relationship

Author: Dr. Fibus Posted in: Relationships November 12, 2018 November 15, 2018

A Little on the ImagoThere is not one word that creates anxiety in people more than the word “relationships.” Sometimes we desire them, sometimes we detest them. We obsess about not having one, followed by a strategy to get out of one. Extreme and difficult in the most normal of times, Valentine’s Day focuses a … Continue reading

Let Go of the Grudge

Author: Dr. Fibus Posted in: Anger Management November 12, 2018 November 15, 2018

Anger is a secondary emotion. This means that we shield ourselves with anger in order to keep out the real emotions we are feeling (sadness, loneliness, anxiety, etc.). This is true in all areas of our lives but holds a primary yet unhealthy place in our marriages. It is easy to get angry at your … Continue reading

Neurofeedback for Peak Performance

Author: Dr. Fibus Posted in: Neurofeedback November 12, 2018 November 20, 2018

There are many skills and conditions that contribute to peak performance, including focus, attention, practice and knowing the material (for example, a musical score, rules of a game or the science behind a chemical reaction). Remove one of those elements and it’s unlikely peak performance will follow.Neurofeedback can contribute enormously to one’s ability to focus, … Continue reading

Surviving an Affair

Author: Dr. Fibus Posted in: Relationships November 12, 2018 November 16, 2018

How could this have happened to youSurviving an affair is not something that is comfortable, familiar, or second nature. Overcoming infidelity can feel very much like moving to a foreign land and not being able to speak the language.You have questions that need to be answered, and you want to find peace. You don't want … Continue reading

Using Neurofeedback to Treat Addictions

Author: Dr. Fibus Posted in: Neurofeedback November 12, 2018 November 15, 2018

Alcohol and Drug AbuseAddiction ruins relationships, causes job loss and accidents and takes lives. Years of study have shown us that addictions are anchored in the brain. The brain has learned to value the “rewards” of the addictive substance and the feelings it provides. While the urge for alcohol, drugs or tobacco may feel powerfully … Continue reading

Feeding Our Anger